Monday, September 11, 2006
♥ Monday, September 11, 2006
The bracketed ones are my comments. And my handwriting analysis is so weird.
Jessica has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.
Jessica is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect her ego when she feels hurt. She pokes people harder than she gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time. (That is not true. That is so not true. The other day i tried to SUBTLY be sarcastic to my cousin and she just told me to stop trying to be sarcastic. SEE.)
Jessica's true self-image is unreasonably low. Jessica also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. (Yes. I hate to agree but I do.)She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Jessica is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Jessica's self-concept is artificially low. Jessica will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Jessica to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. (omg so true. I don't even know what I'm eating for lunch tomorrow)
In reference to Jessica's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. (NO WAY) She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. (UGH. no) She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When Jessica slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. (NO. I TAKE IT SLOW ALL THE WAY. COMEON) Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project. She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Jessica can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip. (EEE)
Jessica has an over-awareness of self. She often feels self-conscious. This means that she often knows what she wants and what she is lacking. When encountering a new group of people, Jessica may stay on the sidelines until she has the people categorized, or she may behave in a "positive attention getting" manner to assure people think good thoughts about her from the start. In the sales profession, this self-consciousness is called "call reluctance". They take the word "no" as a personal criticism. Therefore, there is an internal struggle when performing this type of work. Although this person may be a great salesperson, she still feels insecurity. She will perform better if someone else is with her because the fear of ridicule from her peers is far greater than the fear of ridicule from her clients. Many times this type of person becomes a sales trainer, because when she is training, she doesn't have to put herself in a position of being told "no" as often as the salesmen do.
Jessica is facing what normal people usually don't. She may appear happy-go-lucky or perhaps someone who can never get depressed or unhappy. But most of the time she doesn't show what she is to other people. She prefers to keep some things to herself because she thinks that it will interrupt people. (!!) She wants people to feel great and not be burdened by her problems. (!!)Often, these problems are not minor at all. But this is also a trait that can cause her "downfall". Being too considerate for others will eventually result in hurting herself. Therefore, others should take the initiative to ask her if there's anything wrong so that she knows that they are interested in finding out what she needs. These kind of people usually need more attention than others because they might have probably been hurt before. Otherwise, there is a possibility that they might cause hurt to themselves.
Jessica is moderately outgoing. Her emotions are stirred by sympathy and heart rendering stories. In fact, she can be kind, friendly, affectionate and considerate of others. She has the ability to put herself into the other person's shoes. Jessica will be somewhat moody, with highs and lows. Sometimes she will be happy, the next day she might be sad. She has the unique ability to get along equally well with what psychology calls introverts and extroverts. This is because she is in between. Psychology calls Jessica an ambivert. She understands the needs of both types. Although they get along, she will not tolerate anyone that is too "far out." She doesn't sway too far one way or the other. When convincing her to buy a product or an idea, a heart rendering story could mean a great deal to her. She puts herself in the same situation as the person in the story, yet she will not buy anything that seems overly impractical or illogical. Jessica is an expressive person. She outwardly shows her emotions. She may even show traces of tears when hearing a sad story. Jessica is a "middle-of-the-roader," politically as well as logically. She weighs both sides of an issue, sits on the fence, and then will decide when she finally has to. She basically doesn't relate to any far out ideas and usually won't go to the extreme on any issue. (AHA. Explains my depression in watching Moulin Rouge. And also explains why I get cheated all the time)
People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Jessica doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.
Jessica can be defiant. She sometimes has the attitude that if someone doesn't like it the way she is doing it, then they can just "go to hell!" This trait may reveal itself in a rebellious nature that is always ready to resist forces which she thinks are infringing upon her freedom of action. (Agree on infringing of freedom of action!)
LOL. EEEE.
